If you are looking for the right partner then this one is just for you.... Bring Zen into your life...

Zen states that reflecting on how you deal with the simple ordinary day-to-day stuff sheds light on the real you. Zen forces you to take stock of yourself and helps you identify what you are seeking in a relationship.

Here are 6 tips on the Zen Art of finding the Right Partner... Read and be informed.

Tip No 1 - Eyes wide open
Unmarried and spending most of your time looking for the 'right' person. You may have just missed out on the perfect guy/girl simply because you were too busy waiting for the 'right' person.

No more waiting! Fine-tune your antenna and check out your immediate circle of friends and acquaintances. Mr/Ms Right may be hidden there.

Zen tip for love - Don't run around, take a good look at the person right in front of you.

If you already have someone in your life, try and connect with him/her. He or she may well be just the right partner for you.

Tip No 2 - Don't mess around with Love
Single and saddled with a feeling of "no one loves me...? Well, blame it on the games you play with potential partners. Playing roles is hampering you from getting to know someone well.

An important question to ask of yourself - Are you in love with the image of the person rather than the person himself? If you have been playing games in love, now is the time to get out of the trap.

Zen tip for love - Be who you really are which is a Zen-like state of being.

Figure out the difference between who you are and the roles you play. Never play games in love.

Be confident that you are always lovable and beautiful as you are.

Tip No 3 - Let Go Easily
A partner who tends to cling on is a real problem in your love life. Love never blooms when you stifle your partner.

Zen tip for love - Let go.

Learn to enjoy the beautiful moments with the special person in your life. And when it is time, just let him/her go without getting bogged down with negative feelings. Be cool and take things in your stride. Remember, the more you free yourself and your partner, the easier for you to find true love.

Tip No 4 - Unconditional Love
Are you demanding in love? Zen, states that in a world of demands, love neither blossoms nor leads to the path of happiness.

Zen tip for love - Break free of demands.

How do you break free? List all your demands in a relationship. You then realise that this is old baggage that blocks new channels of love and endless possibilities.

Zen's suggests that the more you let go, the lighter and happier you will feel.

Tip No 5 - Give and give more
When you are in love, give. Not the expensive stuff or other material thing. Share something special of yourself with your loved one and watch love grow.

Zen tip for love - Live with an open and generous mind. Give quietly without fanfare and without expecting something in return.

The Zen secret to true love says gift yourself something everyday. A walk in the park or spending time with a loved one.

Tip No 6 - Accept Yourself
Feeling lost and lonely in spite of having someone by your side? The key is to accept yourself warts and all.

Zen tip for love - 'When you come to terms with yourself and appreciate who you are, it is impossible to feel lonely.

Never be harsh on yourself. Get choosy about relationships. Choose freinds who share the same vibes and accept you unconditionally.

Now you have them all. Make positive changes in your life with Zen. It could begin with something as simple as keeping your clothes neatly in your cupboard and may lead you to something as magical as finding the right partner!

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