Many novices begin cunnilingus (oral sex) by spreading the woman's legs apart and putting their mouth on her genitals. They then begin licking, sucking and nibbling the various parts of her vulva. Quite forgetting that it is not only what is being touched, but the way it is being touched that is critical.

Remember, there are six basic types of tongue positions. Each tongue position has its own unique role in the art of love making.

• The sharp, wide tongue: Stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as possible, then move the tongue in circular motions.
• The sharp, round tongue: Point your tongue and move it in and out of your mouth while keeping the tongue hard and round.
• Flat, soft, wide tongue: Flatten your tongue and curl the wide tip upward, downward and side to side.
• Flat, hard, wide tongue: Flatten your tongue in your mouth. Using some force, try to move your tongue around.
• Side curled tongue: To achieve this position, curl the two sides of your tongue until the two sides of your tongue touch each other.

And for the women, throughout the entire time that you are receiving cunnilingus focus squeezing your kegel muscles and keeping your legs flexed. This will help you keep your mind focused on the genital sensations that you are feeling (and of course enhancing them by adding your own special form of self-touch). Flexing your legs will force you to tilt your pelvis forward, which generally enhances the position that you are in to receive better oral stimulation.

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