Tantra transports sexuality from simply doing to actually being. There is no end goal in Tantric sex, only the present moment of an ideal, harmonious union. Tantra teaches you to worship your sexual partner and to transform the act of sex into a sacrament of love.

Tantric sex teaches techniques and positions to enhance and extend pleasure during sex. You can go through several waves of near orgasm using different styles of stroking, sucking and stimulation, then finish with an extended actual orgasm.

Before you begin, make sure of good oral hygiene (brushing teeth, flossing, tongue scraping and mouthwash) for a positive sensual relationship.

For Him
Kneel or sit between his legs (have him spread them a little if necessary).

Once you're in position, begin by softly caressing his inner thighs and his lower stomach. Avoid touching his penis at first. Lightly stroke the inside of his thigh all the way to the base of the scrotum. Tease the perineum for a second, then repeat the stroke on the other leg. Chances are his penis will come to life without you touching it. After a few strokes on each leg, finish your strokes by caressing from the base of the scrotum, lightly up the scrotum and along the shaft to the tip. Continue until he is fully erect.

Next, begin licking the tip of his penis, keeping one hand around the base of the penis. Swirl your tongue around the tip of the penis, then gently suck the tip. According to Tantra it is possible for a man to experience the feeling of orgasm without actually ejaculating.

A man can experience several of these virtual orgasms in a row. If you finish with an actual orgasm, the final orgasm can be extremely intense. Many men have had full body orgasms lasting over a minute.