Lets face it...men and women are 'turned on' differently and keeping this in mind goes a long way in drawing up a seduction plan. What works for one may not work for the other.

Proven fact: Men make love with their eyes. Women make love with their ears and skin. So when it comes to seducing a woman, sensitivity and emotions are key!. Be subtle for success - that's a lesson that even the most seasoned lovers could learn from Casanova, Don Juan or Cleopatra - those all-season classic seducers.

So... forget text messaging, forget those passionate emails and go for it!

Tools for Seduction

Go Slow and Steady
If you are planning to head straight for the bedroom and go for the kill, your efforts are doomed! Seducing that special someone must always start with some old fashioned bonding -a candlelit dinner, a movie or coffee together - and then move forward.

Romance with words
Let's face it ...sex tops the list in most men's mindspace, but when it comes to a woman, it is good wholesome romance that she craves. The right words and phrases can have an hypnotic effect on your woman, so read up those love poems and get liberal with your compliments - but please don't fake it! Hearing her name spoken by her guy is a big turn-on for a woman. If you can't bring yourself to whisper those sweet nothings, write a mushy love letter.

Cultivate the fine art of listening to the object of your seduction. A receptive ear has a flattering effect on most women and you would come across as being 'sensitive' - and absolutely irresistible!

Pull out all stops
Attitude and technique can make or break your relationship. While wooing your partner with words, it helps to know the do's and don'ts. Compliments go a long way as a preamble to sex - but be sincere without being crass. eg., Compliment a woman on her looks, attitude, clothes, perfume and the way she makes you feel, and you are doing real good! But when it comes to her body parts, remember the golden rule - compliment her only on body parts like eyes, face, hands, legs and no further!

A gradual build-up of tempo leads to great sex. So pamper all the senses and woo your partner over a period of time. Send flowers and love messages, call up for no reason at all, touch and flirt when you are out together.

Set the stage
Décor and ambience are very important. A mountain cabin up in the hills, a beach house or in your own home - clean and comfortable with a dash of romance is the way to go. Smelly rooms and dirty linen can put a lid on seduction real fast. Create the mood for love with aromatic candles and soft music - stock up on love foods like chocolates, avocadoes, red wine.

Foreplay
Foreplay is very important to a woman, it takes longer for her to 'tune in'. Slow and tender with a gentle touch is the way to go. Touch, lick and kiss the entire body, not just the genitals and watch her react. Ideally, foreplay should last for more than 15 minutes but sometimes it could stretch to nearly an hour or two. A woman can make her man last longer by making responsive sounds, giving a sensual massage and turning foreplay into a visual treat.

Love-making
Most men see lovemaking as penetration - but the best sex is an interesting mixture of intercourse and foreplay. Choose sexual positions that are pleasurable for both. You could also try a mix of several basic positions - man on top, woman on top, standing, rear entry etc - and linger over the one that works best for both of you. Switch tempo by speeding up and slowing down to tease her and make her want more - it also allows you to last longer and increases your stamina in the bedroom.

Afterplay
Afterplay is that which you do together after sex - and falling asleep is definitely not on! Kissing, cuddling, holding each other and talking are some of the right things to do. For most women, the post-coital cuddling is the best part of the sexual experience, as it leads to emotional bonding.

So take your time and get adventurous. You are on your way to mastering the art of seduction!

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