It is quite normal for people to have different sexual attractions. At this stage in your life, you need to understand how you feel about sex?

You may well be confused. Try and answer these questions - and it may help you sort out and understand your feelings.

	How far do you want to go?
	Are you sure about what you will or won't do?
	Do you want to have sex? Why?
	Have you and your partner talked about sex and what you expect from it?
	Do you both want the same thing?
	Is your relationship resting on the 5 pillars of love? (More about this here)
	Are you ready for any physical or emotional outcome?

Very often, we get confusing messages from everything around us. Boys end up thinking that they need to compete with other guys. And girls are supposed to be meek. These attitudes are dangerous and can spoil a perfectly good relationship!

So who, or what is sexy? Everything around us says curvaceous figures and hunks are sexy. Just one point though - you don't have to look like Jennifer Lopez or Tom Cruise to be considered sexy. Everyone is different and sexy in their own way! It is our personality, how we dress and what we think of ourselves that makes us sexy.

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Sexual Attraction and Attitudes

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