Are you ready to have sex because you think you are in love or is it just plain physical attraction, commonly referred to as lust? This is a problem that resides not only amongst teens but grown-ups as well. How does one know? Tough one, eh?

Neither man nor woman will carry a placard saying they want to have sex. The secret is to observe their Body Language. At a party for instance, your eyes lock on to this striking young woman. There's an exchange of hard stares. She offers a shy smile. Your next move would be to walk across introduce yourself and set the ball rolling. If you noticed that smile and turned away, you're a jerk. She's not going to give you a second chance. You missed out because you don't read body language too well, so it's back to the drawing board, pal!

Each man wants to be a 'legendary lover'. Each wants to give women passionate love and have them surrender their body. Easier said than done. All women aren't game all the time and unless you read body language, how can you tell? Teenagers have this urge to experiment with sex, but when confronted with that moment of truth, some back away. Too scared! The ever-lurking fear of parents, for example or 'What if somebody finds out?' Despite this many do cross over.

The motivation for sex varies from individual to individual. Women for instance, are far more attracted to a man not for his looks, but how he'll make them feel. Most women find a man who is shy, reserved and generally negative in approach, as uninteresting. His body language suggests he isn't ready and the last thing women want is to conduct coaching classes. Mastering conversation can be defined as 'a good approach to instant attention'. The ploy works provided one doesn't go overboard. Women observe all the time what men talk. Openly discussing past relationships is a sure sign of a blabbermouth and best kept at a distance.

There's no such age when one should have sex. People are prepared to have sex for a variety of reasons. To some, feeling an emotion and then acting on that emotion is reason enough. Many couples think about consequences and then make a mature decision, 'To do or not to do'. Trust, respect and love for the partner is one of the considerations and on the other hand, the sheer fun, ecstasy and pleasure are motivating factors towards experiencing sex.

Frankly, there's no such thing as 'Are you ready?' The simple answer to a seemingly complicated question is, "If you feel comfortable, then go ahead."

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