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I like to masturbate but could it be dangerous for me?
- Ramesh 15 yrs
Masturbation is perfectly normal and won't cause any health problems, so it's not dangerous for you. Girls sometimes use different objects to rub against the clitoris or to put inside their vaginas. Follow this general rule to avoid infections - if you wouldn't put it in your mouth, don't put it in your vagina!
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My body is doing some really weird things. I am confused. - Shiela
We all hit puberty sooner or later and it's normal to feel this way. There's nothing you can do to stop it, or change it, so enjoy the experience! If it helps, your friends are going through exactly the same problems. Just remember it doesn't happen overnight.
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I can't get a girlfriend and I've never even been on a date. Is there something wrong with me? - Tariq
Most relationships start as friendships. Try and put yourself in situations where you are able to meet some girls. Try and look for girls who like the same things you do, that way you'll both have some common ground to start from. The next step would be to do the things you both enjoy together, giving yourselves time to get to know one another before you move the friendship upto another level.
In the good old days, girls used to wait for the guys to make the first move, but times have changed and she may well ask first! By the way, scientific research shows people are attracted to each other by chemical smells, but girls usually say the biggest turn on is a good sense of humour.
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I'm a 13 year old girl and I've got a crush on an older girl at school. Does it mean I'm a lesbian? - Shobha
Girls, and boys for that matter, often have a crush on older friends, teachers or film stars - it's all part of growing up. When they hit puberty, some teenagers do start to feel confused about their sexuality. This doesn't mean you are a lesbian. Even if you do later emerge as one, keep in mind that it is not wrong or unnatural.
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How will I know if I'm ready to have sex? - Robin
Well, the important thing is to think whether this is the right choice for you at this particular time in your life. Some teenagers rush to have sex to lose their virginity. Others spend years waiting for exactly the right partner to come along! Never be pressured into having sex. Take time to explore kissing, touching, masturbating before you go all the way. And always practice safe sex.
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I'm 15. Can I go on the Pill without telling my mum.
- Gayatri
You can visit a doctor in total confidence and go on the Pill based on what your doctor advises. However, remember the Pill will not protect you from sexually transmitted infections.
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Oral sex is quite normal and can give very intense pleasure, but only if both partners want to try it. It's important that you wash beforehand and use your lips and tongue - NOT your teeth!
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My friend had sex without a condom last night. Will she get pregnant? - Kavita
She should take immediate action and get 'emergency contraception' which can be taken up to 72 hours (three days) after unprotected sex. It consists of two pills, which, if taken correctly 12 hours apart, can prevent pregnancy.
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How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant and what will happen next?
Your parents may be shocked and angry at first, but then they'll want to do their best to help you.
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