Dear Simi,
How to make my girl friend agree to have sex with me? - Sweet
Dear Sweet,
This depends on how long you have been having a relationship. You should be able to find out her interest in having sex. Try making some small advances by which you can find out if she is willing. Generally girls are shy and don't express themselves that easily until and unless they are absolutely sure and safe about the partner.
Too Young for Sex
Dear Simi,
I am very hot and sexy, but overweight. I am 12 years old. I have had sex 5-6 times before and I'm experienced. I have a very sexy girlfriend, but now she refuses to have sex with me. What can I do? - Sashi Sekhar Rallapalli
Dear Sashi,
You need to follow a proper fitness regime to stay fit. Check it out with a fitness expert and also seek medical advice. Obesity can deter sexual performance. Regarding your girlfriend, it will be difficult to predict her likes and dislikes and recommend. Anyway, it's too early to get involved in relationships at your age.
Unlimited Sex
Dear Simi,
I'm 25 years old and extremely passionate. I have had sex more than 500 times. I could do it 7 times in a day, but now the erection of my penis has come down. Even 2 times in a day is difficult now and I'm scared that I may loose my erection. Do you have any solutions to help me regain my erection? - Adi
Dear Adi,
Anything in excess could be harmful - 500 times is within what time frame? Divert your mind into some hobbies and practice yoga that will help you balance your mind and body. Exercise to increase stamina and eat a nutritious diet. Be relaxed and don't worry.
Sex Position for Women
Dear Simi,
Which position will give more pleasure to women? - Tanweer Ahmad
Dear Tanweer,
It depends on which position your woman likes. You need to communicate openly with each other and find out after each experience. Verbal communication is equally important if you need to have a better understanding about each other. Try out the various positions on our website.
Condoms & Protection
Dear Simi,
My problem is that I used this condom & I'm confused if this is 100% safe. Will it protect me from HIV & AIDS? Please reply. - Sonu
Dear Sonu,
Condoms are used to avoid unwanted pregnancy and protect from STD. Even though you have used a condom, if the person is infected, HIV can be transmitted by saliva, air, cough, fecal-oral route, surfaces, blood, needles, blood transfusions, sexual contact, mother to fetus, etc. Because you have had intercourse using a condom with an infected person, it does not mean you are without risk.
Preventing Premature Ejaculation
Dear Simi,
I'm 22 yrs old and I come very early. Am I suffering from any problem? How can I improve it? Please let me know. - Shobhit
Dear Shobhit,
Your body might have not handled high sexual arousal without ejaculating. While you masturbate to orgasm as quickly as possible, this becomes a pattern of sexual response which you have never managed to change. With the right approach, you can easily change the response of your body to high arousal.
Practice kegel exercise that will help your strengthen your pelvic muscles. Eat a balanced diet, practice yoga and meditation that will help you balance body and mind.
