Dear Simi,
I'm 48 years old, and my sexual desires are slowing of late. How can I improve it? - Ajit
Dear Ajit,
Male menopause can be one of the factors for low sexual desire. Hormonal imbalance, stress, age can also cause it. However, the good news is, you can definitely improve your sex drive. Seek medical advice with an open mind and I'm sure you will soon be fit.
Semen in Urine
Dear Simi,
I have a unique problem - I pass urine with semen, during the day and at night. Some nights, when I have a bad sex dream, I also pass urine along with the semen.
- Sunil Basha
Dear Sunil Basha,
Night fall is common, but if its' accompanied with urination, it would be advisable to seek medical advice to rule out your fear.
Tilted Penis
Dear Simi,
I have a problem during erection. My penis is tilted at an angle of about 45 - 50 degrees while erect. I would like to know if it is normal, and whether it will be a problem while making love. Please tell me if there are any remedial measures. - Messi
Dear Messi,
Penis curvature is something that you should be concerned about. Seek medical advice .It can cause pain when erect and be a problem during intercourse.
Pornography
Dear Simi,
Will watching pornography affect my studies? - SSS
Dear SSS,
Yes, too much of it can be a major distraction. Just a little bit of entertainment is ok, but don't take it seriously like your studies.
Oral Sex - is it ok?
Dear Simi,
My girlfriend always asks me to suck her vagina as much as I can. I don't feel like doing it - but she sucks my penis as hard as she can and she drinks all the semen. Should I also do the same? Is there any problem in these actions? - Partha
Dear Partha,
Make love the way you both feel comfortable with. Understand each other's likes and dislikes, communicate and proceed.
Is Oral Sex Dangerous?
Dear Simi,
Is it advisable to have oral sex? - Ramakrishna
Dear Ramakrishna,
Oral sex with strangers can be dangerous, as a wide variety of Sexually Transmitted Diseases can be spread through oral sex. As long as it is just restricted to a mutually faithful relationship (as in a marriage), it is enjoyable.
