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First Time SexDear Simi,
I am 16 and I want to have sex with my girlfriend. Is it okay? I have masturbated regularly before, is it possible that she could get pregnant even after using a condom? Give a little advice on first time sex/losing virginity. - Steven Ferns
Dear Steven,
You need to understand the pros and cons of having sex. Yes, if the condom is not used in the proper manner and if the semen gets into her it's very risky. First time sex is just not having intercourse alone. There's more to understanding the relationship. Read through the articles on how to practice safe sex.
To Prolong Intercourse
Dear Simi,
How can I prolong intercourse for a longer time - for at least 10-15 minutes? Are there any medicines available that can be taken without harming the stomach or body? Please let me know the dosage. - TR Pillaai
Dear Pillaai,
We don't suggest any remedies or prescriptions. You need to check with your physician. First of all you need to understand your body and your partner's. Fine tune your foreplay depending on how she feels. There are many tips in the articles featured in the website, to enhance pleasure. Change positions and see how it feels. Relax and don't hurry the moment you get aroused. Practice Kegel exercise, which will strengthen your pelvic muscles and eat a balanced nutritious diet.
Premature Ejaculation
Dear Simi,
I am 24years old but till now I have not had sex with anyone. One day I tried and my sperm came out when I kissed her on her breasts and lips and my penis calmed down. I was not able to have sex due to premature ejaculation. I'm feeling depressed as I was not able to insert my penis in her vagina. Please give me a suggestion. - Amlan
Dear Amlan,
This is very normal, especially when you try it for the first time. In fact it can happen quite often. It takes a while to adjust to your partner's body. Anxiety and excitement may take over and you may ejaculate. Don't worry, come out of that depression and think positive. Go slow, relax and then make a start. Take time for foreplay. Read through the articles featured on www.kohinoorpassion.com on foreplay techniques.
Masturbation Fun
Dear Simi,
How can I make masturbation more interesting and fun? - Xyz
Dear Xyz,
Masturbation is just to release and make you feel relaxed. Be gentle when you handle the penis though you may feel like doing something crazy. Secondly, don't get ideas from pornography books or films, as it can hurt the penis and cause damage.
Dry Vagina
Dear Simi,
My vagina dried at age of 29. - Shweta
Dear Shweta,
This could be due to hormonal imbalance or high stress levels, as the mucous in the vaginal walls may sometimes reduce, causing dryness. Strained relationship with your partner can also be one of the causes. You may try some curative yoga and use lubrication before intercourse. Seek medical advice.
Feeling tired after Masturbating
Dear Simi,
I'm 15 years old. I pass semen at an interval of 2 days. I feel tired the next day and can't concentrate well in studies. But I can't stop this also. Can you please give me a solution for this? - Kiran
Dear Kiran,
This is the age when you will tend to masturbate as the feeling is very exciting and you will do it again and again. Don't feel guilty, but instead divert your mind into something different. Yes, if you don't have the stamina, there is bound to be a lot of fatigue. Join the gym and exercise to improve your physique. Read books, listen to music or take up a yoga programme that will help you concentrate. It will also improve your body and mind and guide you well.
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